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I'm looking for someone who's actually single parent dating advice Rosendale NY ready and knows what she wants! Hello ladies! I absolutely love Thanksgiving, Christmas and New years eve so if you're festive and you're looking for a long lasting relationship, here's our ice breaker! We can enjoy the holidays together and then see where that leaves us at the first of the year. I love to help out in the kitchen as well as decorate so if you'd like to add some spice to this holiday season and then keep it going throughout next year, please continue reading! A little about me... I am a guy who can cook, clean, I do my own laundry and I have a trade. I'm also drug free. I really miss being in love and having someone in my life that I can look foward to seeing every day! This is what I'm setting out to find on here. If you like what I've written so far, please carefully read the contents below. They explain what I'm all about and what I'm looking for in a relationship partner. Thanks. These are my most unique qualities... #1. Subject: (Love) I have an extraordinary heart that no has been able to match yet! When I give myself to someone, I go all the way and it's usually too much for the other person. Especially, if they're used to having shallow relationships. A lot of people are afraid of their own emotions. They get scared when they start to feel vulnerable and then it isn't long before they do something stupid to sacrifice everything so they can go back to a “safe zone”. Not me. I have no fear of love and I realize that when it's the real thing, you won't be able to control it. That's what makes it so wonderful & exciting! #2. Subject: (Affection) I am probably of the most affectionate people you'll ever meet and it doesn't dwindle away as the relationship progresses either. I'm always like that! I love to cuddle, hold hands, give lots of hugs & kisses and feel close to the person I'm with. I'm not smothering by any means but I will never turn you away when you want or need my attention! #3. Subject: (Communication) I'm an excellent communicator. I don't believe that time automatiy heals things or that “kissing and making up” is the final answer either. Problem solving is. You have to be able to sit down eye to eye and discuss your issues until you can reach a solution. Then both people have to stick with what they agreed to. Those who can't do this usually end up as part of that ugly divorce rate we have in this country! #4. Subject: (Sex) I have never cheated in a relationship and I have no desire for other women when I'm involved with someone either. However, I have to admit that it turns me on when my lady wants me all to herself and is too jealous to share me with anyone else but she would have no problem getting it on with another guy! Don't worry, This is not my number priority and I wouldn't want it to be the focal point of the relationship but let's just say that whoever pulls on my heart strings will get to have her cake and eat it too! The key is communication and trust. #5. Subject: (Growth) The average guy you meet will put on a show, throw on his cape and act like a superhero so he can win you over but once he gets comfortable and settles into the relationship, he turns into a real jerk! You won't get that with me. In fact, I'm the exact opposite. I don't jump through circus hoops or pretend to be someone I'm not just to impress a girl. Being myself should be good enough. However, I do become sweeter, more affectionate, more loving and more romantic as time goes on when I start to see that you're going to stick around a while. That's what lights my fire and that's what brings out the best in me! If you and I can see eye to eye on all qualities and not just three out of or out of of them, please don't hesitate to contact me because you might be that I've been looking for! Also, I'm sorry but I'm not into obese women. However, I'm not perfect either and I do have some flexibility there but I also have my limits. Note: I find it to be somewhat amusing that several women have responded and told me that I must have girls banging on my door based on what I have to offer but that's totally not true! No has stepped up to the plate. In fact, it's tough to even get a conversation going. Let me just say this... You have to be as real as I am if you want this to happen and I'll be right here waiting! P.S. I get a lot of responses about my #4 most unique quality. Some women think it's hot, some have joined the "self-righteous" band wagon and have criticized me for it and others don't quite understand the message I'm conveying so I thought I'd clear this matter up for you. To make a long story short... I have always had a relatively boring sex life due my "ultra-conservative" girlfriends and the fact that I've been a very jealous guy to boot. There was a time when I couldn't even stand for my woman to look at someone else! It wasn't until recently when I was introduced to watching a girlfriend of mine go at it with another guy. I never thought that I could agree to something like that but when I did, I found it to be a huge turn on! There's nothing sexier in this world than to watch the woman you love & care about enjoy herself with another man but then want to be in your arms when everything's said and done! Obviously, the girl I was with isn't around anymore but I do have some fantasies that are left unfinished. I would like to write another exciting chapter and finish the book with the woman who comes into my life next. Sometimes, I would want to watch and other times I'd let her go out on her own and then come home and tell me all about it! All the while, we'll be falling in love with each other! This is about total unselfishness on my part which is why I'm willing to be faithful in the process. If I'm with you, I don't want anyone else. However, I love the idea of adding more pleasure & enjoyment to my woman's life while letting her explore with things that just about no other man would be okay with! I'm not talking about making this a forever thing because they'll be a day when we're both older and the idea won't be appealing anymore. Maybe it'll be out of our system in a very short period of time or maybe it'll become a part of our relationship. Who knows? I just want someone who's at least willing to experiment with me while we're still young enough to enjoy it!
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