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"Relationship anarchist" looking for similar It often seems the g lonely women in exeter reater I try to explain what I'm trying to get, the further I get than it because I don't think when it comes to relationship "categories. " It appears this should always be so, so quite simple. If I as you and you for instance me, isn't that adequate? But there are lots of preconceptions. It's not really about "romantic" or perhaps "platonic. " It's around being real against each other right from the start, whether about sex or other things, just because that is ideally suited for and because we valueanother. It isn't about "long-term" or perhaps "short-term. " People are likely to stay together exactly provided they wish, forget about and no a smaller amount, so let's just see what goes on instead of wanting to make it long-lasting or impermanent. It isn't about dominance and also submission. It's about everyof us stepping away from our own tactics and finding ways for a lot of to get might know about want/need without the need to control other people (I like looking for "win-win" situations). It isn't about "just" close friends or "more than" acquaintances. It's about relating withanother based on our own actual desires as well as needs, and not based upon our positions in some silly hierarchical hierarchy. My friends are essential to me, regardless of gender and whether there's a sexual aspect to your relationship. Period. There is no "just" or "more than" regarding this. I feel that will friendship is good results in itself, whether sex is needed, so the traditional phrases about "friends together with benefits, " "friends initially, " etc. really are a bit redundant. They're really just euphemisms to prevent mentioning sex. Honestly, I think all connecting is relating--and as a result a relationship--not simply the communication which fits into various box, type, class, or whatever! 'm I seeking your "serious" relationship? Nicely, that depends... In the event that "serious" means exceptional, then no. Nevertheless, if it means based upon honesty, actually giving your damn about each other, respect, etc., after that hell yes. Independence and caring can often be compatible, you realize.: ) I'm in to music (especially techno, jazz, worldwide, and good old-fashioned mountain and "alternative" from back when that meant something), sci-fi (not necessarily standard TV fare--I will be a book junkie), felines & other animals (I was previously the main humanoid endorse forcats), comparative philosophy (I'm any Gnostic Agnostic Panvitalist by using very Zenarchist/anarchist leanings in which occasionally cause me to fall over), language/linguistics (I accustomed to know just enough Portuguese to have me in problem, still know enough English to obtain me in huge trouble, and enough Silence to understand that words slice the modern world up into groups, but they you should not always cut that for effective communication), loitering with friends (I go with quality rather as compared to quantity), culture (We live on a planet--not just inside of a country), traveling/exploring (indoors, outside, underdoors), geek information (yeah, yeah, I have "got root, " but it isn't got me, We promise), and all things. I'm not by nature a serious man or woman, but I conduct listen and necessarily mean what I express. My sense with humor is multi-colored along with multi-tentacled. I 'm neither the queen, the prince, nor the knight in shining armor. I'm the dodgy jester who got fed up with the entire monarchy plus left to head a quiet everyday living with some new experiences thrown in. I firmly believe that there's actually a difference between chivalry and real respect, and I apply the latter rather than the former. There's simply no hidden agenda the following, no hoops through which we must hop. I'll hold the entranceway for you because I aim to help people, and let you know the truth since honesty just makes things a great deal simpler, not because either may be the "proper" next part of a pre-programmed courtship ritual. I would like the same honesty coming from others. I 'm neither Mr. Right who would most likely deny you another individual who is also right for you simply because the other person is not all of us, nor Mr. Right-Now who expects you to definitely sever your caring through the sexuality and become outright a receptacle. I'm a genuine, honest, affectionate, empathic, hybrid polyamorous and also quirkyalone (able so that you can love many and understand that people aren't asset, and willing to live single unless/until My partner and i connect deeply with someone(s)), generally mellow and also sometimes quiet hippie-oid mutant seeking women kindred spirit along with whom to share a little bit of life, laughter, and love that's about honesty and respect rather then jealousy. Let's share interests and find out what happens! I 'm not professional. My personal job is. I'm a person, and never my job. You will find aspects of my job that we find interesting, but I really have mixed feelings concerning the county government is actually I work, with no real faith on government or authority usually. My view of ethics is actually simple: We're all in such a together, so anything I for or to someone else will effect everyone, such as me. Therefore, I might as well try to enable people whenever I'll and not screw the entire world up any greater than it is, basically can help that. I frankly don't believe in money except for a big stupid shell game we are all forced to carry out to varying qualifications. All the multiple-choice "factory specification" stuff is utterly secondary to us. I don't care how much money your wallet creates, how tall/short a person's ruler is, just how much your bathroom climb weighs, whether your television appears like a supermodel, exactly where your resume will work, when your birth certificate appeared, or whether a person's degrees finished higher education (The entire Earth can be your school, and I respect wisdom a lot more than credentials). I do care for you to be a serious, caring, affectionate, innovative, self-aware, evolving, and self-accepting individual who dares to live life, love, and feel just like you will and never have to step on other folks. If you often find that a color with out a name, you're curious about the world about you, you think/feel sincerely, your path veers heli-copter flight main stream by simply conscious choice, and you will love without envy, we'll probably have quite a lot to start by using. Appearance-wise, I find I'm most attracted to women who just mimic their natural selves and do not wear makeup or possibly shave. As for my very own "factory specifications, " I'm lbs (in ordinary earth gravity), x'x", along with x arms,legs, and x travel containing long brown/gray your hair, x hazel view (semi-functional), x goatee/mustache outfit, and x brain (usually a minimum of mostly functional). We physiy cannot push, so I implement public transportation and also my legs. I'm -friendly. I don't smoke cigarettes (though I'm not militant regarding this if others do). I'd better bring up that traditional authoritarian religion and I actually do not mix perfectly at all. Nevertheless, I am attracted to some forms regarding conscious paganism plus gnosticism, as well as good old stuffy atheism along with rationalism. So... I don't create a particularly good anything-ist in such a department. Like Socrates, We question every darned thing, even by myself. I hope that if you're in an already present marriage or alternative commitment, it is choose to truly open or you may have an exit technique. While I don't believe in marriage regarding myself, I feel not here to help you break anyone's coronary heart. If you resonate with the majority of what I've said here and you simply don't find you screaming "Noooo, not really THAT! , " let's talk!: ) .