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First, I think it needs to be mentioned that most guys are here for only a couple reasons: Sex or a relationship or bo women seeking fucking Langfang th. Men, as most women not in denial already know, by nature look at what a woman looks like in order to fashion his first move. When there are no pics and the guy asks for one, the female should keep in mind that "who she is on the inside" matters very little at this stage. Posting an ad without is understandable, as I won't, but when it comes down to responses and asking for pictures later, there seems to be real issues. Most guys will provide a picture unless there is something to hide or be ashamed of. The same goes for females. But females, I am finding, have a tougher time opening up at this cross road because let's face it, females are far more self-aware of their looks andor weight. When the male is requesting these photos, he is, for the most part, being given a facial shot or asked, "Are looks all that matter?" or, "You aren't shallow, are you?" The fact of the matter is YES, it does matter to a man. It matters for many reasons than just sex and beauty. Men imagine things such as, "Will my friends accept this? Will my family think I did well enough? Is this someone that will be healthy down the road? Is this someone that takes good care of themselves? Men are visual creatures, and for the females that don't quite get this yet, it would probably be a great idea to put dating on hold until better understood. Because under no circumstance is this instinct going to change. It has, and always has, been this way. Anything to the contrary is fantasizing. I posted an ad some time ago, and of course, when I asked for pictures from those that responded, I got mostly face pics, blurry pics, or no picture at all. even blasted me for being shallow; that what's on the inside counts the most. "Ok," I said. "Maybe another time." It turned out that sure, she was a sweet person online and over the , but when I finally DID get a picture of her it was blurry. When I explained that I could hardly make out facial features, she sent me another, and it was not what I had expected. I was really let down, because let's face it, I MUST be physiy attracted to someone to have a love life with! HELLO!?!? I told her as much in a politiy correct way, and now I am an asshole, right? Wrong. No, men, are not perfect, and for the most part, many are just pigs wanting to get laid. But if females think they are going to find the love of their life online without some sort of visual aid for their male counterparts, you're wasting everyone's time. Namely, their own.
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