am I wrong my wife hits me with divorce papers. i sign em give a hug, no kiss tell her I hope things work out for her. Shes supprised, no fighting, no arguing, no bs. She was expecting some reaction other then me saying well I don't want to be with anyone that doesn't want to be with me...........

Cause your supposed to cry and want her and only her, and grovel for her.

really? Why to justify her leaving me because I am a looser? Why would I want to be with anyone that doesn't want to be with me.....

she might she might be bluffing, trying to get an admission of undying love from you. I guess it didnt work!

I did not think about that I cannot tell if that is the case or not, but if it is, she should know me enough not to play fuck me tonite like that. To me that is a game. if that is the case should I reconcile if she deceides? I dont know if I even could, I have gone to counseling years ago, before we were together, and I have come to the ability of not holding grudges, and moving on. I have moved on in my mind to a degree, I hope am am not sounding stupid, I just dont feel comfortable talking with my friends and family about this yet. Friends that are female are hitting on me, Male friends are trying to get me drunk to forget everything, and family are suggesting vidictive behavior (which I would have enjoyed atpoint in my life) and counter actions in court, as well as a "doggy recovery plan" which would work, but .....cant go there in this forum. So I need a non bias, nuetral ear and feedback. PS thank you rebuilder, I never thought of that

Forget the dog. Forget her. She did you a favor. Move on, focus on career and women seeking affairs and enjoying your own life. WTF do you need to even discuss or deal with her bullshit.

Are you a loser? Why did you say that? You did the right thing. Move on.

I can see why she is divorcing you. You are obviously so full of love and passion for her that she couldn't stand it. "Honey Im leaving you...." shrug. Yeah, wish you were my guy. Blah.

Cupcake, fighting over or for a woman is an utter and complete waste of time, you fucking loser attention whore. Don't let the door hit your fat ass as it shuts. LOL Fuckwit. The funny thing is that I wasn't even upset when I filed for divorce. If it's broken, why fix it. Douchenozzles like you give humans a bad name.

try this. I home meet her at the top of the stairs with a smile waiting for a hug and kiss, and all I get is I had a shitty day, then she falls asleep on the couch. that was lonely women looking for men every day last year. Honey I am going out, i have to get out of the house, why dont you come with me .....her answer is always past x months I try and snuggle up, kiss her, I am watching my show she says..... her excuse is her lonely white girls make her moody, sleepy, and made her libido disapeer. DO YOU REALLY THINK I HAVE BEEN HAPPY, THIS IS A RELIEF IN MANY WAYS FOR ME, But after everything I have done for her She gets a nice lump of cash, and miss's mother in adult speed dating turns wheels in her head. LIke I said before she was expecting all the emotions she usually gets from me, but they dried up and died when she hit me with this

That is because you are smart. It is a waste of time to be with someone who has x foot out the door.