Depends on the message you want the Do you want them to learn to compromise and get along in the world or do you want them to stand by their convictions no matter what?? Additionally, the issue at hand come into play too. For example, if she want to tie up the and punish them Corporeal style and he wants to do time outs and no can agree -- then, yeah, maybe you have a bigger problem than mere parenting styles.

He believes in spanking and I do not. I told him not to hit anymore. I feel taking away things works much better. He has much more of a temper and less patience than I do. I love him dearly, but it can be very frustrating and we fight about it at times...

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Spanking and hitting will only teach the to hit. Is that what he wants, aggressive ? He sounds like a big angry baby himself. He needs an anger management class and a little less ego. You don't teach a to do what you want by hitting. Hitting teaches your to be afraid of you.

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Yeah, better to try logical reasoning with Why do I sense you've never had of your own?

Hitting isn't a parenting style in this millenium. We now know that ren aren't small adults and we can't expect adult behavor from them. Hitting is never acceptable.

Hitting isn't adult behavior either Yay!

Not necessarily I got spanked and even slapped in the face a couple of times when I was a kid. (That's just what happens in Italian families I guess!) But guess what? I still love my parents dearly and talk to/visit with them on a regular basis. Spanking your kid isn't going to scar him or her for life if it's done in an attitude of love and fatherly/motherly discipline rather than an attitude of anger or sadism. Believe me, my fiance's sister-in-law isof these parents who thinks ren should never be hit. She's got three little boys, none of whom respect her and all of whom laugh at her or throw temper tantrums when she tries to tell them what to do. Time-outs only go so far when you're raising like that.

Go to parenting classes together You will both learn something. And then maybe you won't screw up your ren like so many people do. You have , you need to think about how you are going to work things out so that they can grow up in a stable loving family. You have no business even considering divorce. Divorce hurts ren, a lot. Our prisons are full of ren from broken homes. Be an adult. Get your shit together. Learn to parent. Learn to be a good spouse. Keep your marriage happy. Get Dr. Phil's book, Family First and Relationship Rescue, and do the work needed to fix things. Instead of wanting to run to divorce court at the first disagreement and scarring your for life.

I partially agree While I agree that parenting classes can definitely help, I think it's a little bit of a stretch to say that divorced parents = screwed up in jail. There's something to consider that if you were to divorce, your ex would still spend a great deal of time with you ren, and he would still be doing the same behavior. And then you wouldn't even be around to (try) to stop it.

Exactly A huge proportion of people in jail never really had daddies to begin with - they were raised by single moms.

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Yea, my turned out so very bad, One is a mayor of a city, another a manager in a huge aerospace co., and yet another is a career military officer. The youngest owns her own successful manufacturing company. Where did I go so wrong, getting them away from a father that BEAT US ALL DAILY.

Good God, I wasn't insulting you personally Many single moms do a great job raising their . All I was saying is that a lot of people in prison come from broken homes. Geesh, lighten up.

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Seriously!!! OK, how would divorce be better for the ? If he's hurting them, thatsthing, but if it's a quick swat on the backside that's another. Trust me, I am divorced because my husband was cruel to my daughter, but my son has suffered from it. He cries quite often because he wants us back together and doesn't understand. If you asked the (which I don't think you should) I'm sure they would take a spanking anyday over losing their family structure. I agree that a parenting class would benefit both of you, possibly getting you on the same page. Good luck.

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