thornburg
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2011-02-23 2-27-23-
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What i am looking for is complicated. What I am looking for is complicated. I have very little free time. I would like to find so dating man Wildwood Crest mething between friends with benefits and LTR with a slow progression to.....well sky is the limit . Not sure if that is possible but here is how you can get it d Make eye contact. Hold eye contact. and smile. That should be enough when we're strangers but both in the same place long enough for me to recognize your interest, remove my head from my ass, and act on it. Like the gym or a bar, or the psychiatric ward. If you don't have enough time to wait for me to overcome my surprise at your sultry glances or I am too wrapped up in my head to notice, you'll have to take some bolder steps, which are necessarily scarier for you to make as they might result in active rejection. But as the Butthole Surfers said, it's better to regret something you have done, than regret something you haven't d Perhaps your safest bet is something as simple as "hey, I just had to tell you I really like your ____" (Tie, handcuffs or, ineffable insouciance, etc.). This is much better than "Nice ____" ( Shoes or, Shinny head) because a full sentence will give me more time to pull myself out of whatever internal dialog I'm in ("how to create world peace through tantric sex") and respond with something more productive than a hasty "thanks." Odds are, even if I'm really responsive, you're not going to get into a deep conversation at Cosco or Gold's Gym that'll give you an easy extension to an actual date ("wow, you're into working out too? Can you spot me while I do squats?" or " did you try that fried cheese on next to the DVD section") The fact is the gym is not the best place to pick me up. But I have had several good lines used on me there. My favorite is "Hi what are you listening to; you seem to be really into it. Let me guess" the will always get me to remove my ipod ( or at least turn it down) You may have to take another bold step and follow it up with a (excuse why conversation isn't continuing, such as 'I've got to go practice my oral sex skills now') "Hey, but would you want to go get laid, I mean a drink, sometime?" If we're not strangers, and you want to make your interest clear when we're hanging out somewhere, it'll vary from situation to situation, but some things are generally true: - laugh at my jokes. - touch me. Nothing gross, simply a hand on my shoulder or elbow when making a point in conversation. - mention that you're single. The best way is to mention a date you had last week that didn't go well - it shows you're available but not desperate. It also, if you tell it right, gives me a hint about what you would want a date to be like. - massage my prostate. (Gently) What i am looking for is complicated.
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