Curious about play party ettiquette so please, if you've experienced, share! Here's what I've seen at our local parties so far: Nofucks. They flog, finger, and I hear there's an occasional blow job, but nofucks. And most of the girls wear panties. Is this common free sex toronto your experience?

It's common. I don't like it, but it is common. I helped with the layout of a space here and insisted on a defined area with some cushions on the real free sex personals that would be more amenable to sexy play and fucking, and it's been a big hit. Sex for men in public can be an issue. Many can't quite manage what is a private act, in a public setting. I can't always do it myself. But most times.... hehe. Some want to say that play is solely about power exchange, but I think the above is a large, heh, part of it. Panties; for some there's just the issue of having others see the privates which is an issue for many. Here in the bay area there's less of that, but other places it's sorta a biggie. And some areas have laws about nudity also so that may be a factor.

hey fucker....you're back on? LOSER

depends on the party... ...and the 'scene' in your area. Are there any 'monitor' types at these parties? They would be the people to ask...

Reply to both of the above married dating and Reaper: The power exchange is important, but you're there to flog and damn, I don't know about you, but I want to fuck after I flog you know? And there are "monitors", but our play space in in a private residence, not public, so nudity laws don't apply.

Most take the sex home. But ask about the house rules. Most places have a printed sheet with party rules, some you have to sign that you read it. There have been lawsuits over party happenings, he said/she said, and sex iswhere she could say that she got some bug from him, that he didn't stop when she told him to. Under that theory the host could be sued in some states also. I was told by the props ofclub that's why they had a no sex rule, and why when the discreet encounters personals was changed, that they changed it. Out here most public and private parties are sex with barrier protection, butwas no protection as it was up to responsible people to make their own decision. Private residence; nudity laws may not apply, but if there's sex there may be other laws that could apply. This is the tactic that has been used in some areas. Many clubs around the country have been closed down in the past x-x years,in FL was a swing club where the cops told the papers and reporters and tv cams were on hand when the bust went down. Look up NCSF, National Coalition of Sexual Freedom, for more info.