Can a Newbie ask a Question? I'm looking for a man who is a TRUE Dom...I don't want a roleplay...And I never really knew this about myself until just recently...I'm cute...petite...sweet...kind...giving...caring...and loyal...so...how does get started?

Take your clothes off first. Then type your ques

I found mine by accident I was just playing around with a FB and he started taking control more and more, led to me being his little slut, worked out very nicely :)

that cute butt and pale skin of yours would bring out the dom in most men. Just sayin'.™

*grins* thank you MWE! you are too kind *kiss*

i'll second that MWE

Hey SoV What's new?

eh..trolling...work..the usual..u? your Brewers are killing it

best record in baseball

yeah I know Well for a day anyway. I thought you meant that was "bad news" for you.

*smooch*

hey there *nibble* How was the meeting?

who knows, i really wasn't paying attention. i'll have an official answer next week, but so things look good. how much longer are you in today?

I'm officially on OT as of x min ago OT for me means Own Time. The sad part of being a cog in the corporate machine... Did, um, you qualify yourself for extended play...

yes, sir that's a big part of the reason i couldn't concentrate during my meeting. I was so cooperative "yeah, great idea! let's do it. are we done now?"

hi LL thanks for the picture that's cute, is that pink highlights? Do you like it? I've been busy at work today with alarms going off.

thank you sweetie maybe I can get a bettertonight once I am all done up. Yes, I have hot pink streaks in the front :)

yeah, i like hot pink also if you're looking for other suggestions to try, please try lavender highlights if there is such a thing, that is my other favorite color, also maybe you need to be in more light when you take the picture, just making suggestions but you have probably already thought of the lighting aspect. You never said how you like it. Are you going to try any other shades of red or anything, i don't know like bleach your hair or get it really blonde or whatever needs to be done then try to color it red again. I can't wait to see pictures of you all dolled up and of your hair. I will email you my home email address so you can send them to that email address tonight. thanks again for the pictures you are so sweet

I did bleach it before the blonde it turned out orange so I went for a darker blonde than I wanted, I do like it, I'm going to gradually lighten it from here. And no problem sweetie, I'll keep the new email as well.

I would suggest doing some reading and self education first. There are lots of good books and websites out there. These are some of the sites I have bookmarked: castlerealm.com xeromag.com What do you mean when you say "a man who is a TRUE dom"? What qualities would you find attractive when they are in scene? What qualities are attractive when you're not playing?thing to remember is that a d/s relationship is, at the heart of it, is still a "relationship." So having that part of the connection healthy and workable is paramount, and then the d/s is in addition.

TRUE Dom ? I don't want a man who 'plays' at being dominant...I want to find a man who IS dominant...who knows how to be a man...who takes what he wants...without hesitation or excuses...i don't know what i mean, really since i haven't explored this beyond talking... Thank you very much for the edu materials...i will take a look!

that's something you will have to find for yourself, many men claim to be dom, but it's not necessarily what you may be looking for. The degree depends on the person, mine is extremely dominant, while others have been so-so. You just need to find what works for you.

they dont just crank us out at the Dom... ...factory, you know?...grin

too bad *grins* How are you Reaper?

not too bad... ....I wish my weekend was going to be as fun as yours

Is there a grow you own sub thread too? Might have to do a search on that today : )

i think the Grow Your Sub concept is more common, young and or inexperienced subs are often molded and or groomed to the Doms' liking... hot and very feasible. the Grow Your Own Dom IMO is tougher, in that, some of the very traits you likely seek aren't so easy to cultivate but are typiy inate, things like maturity, confidence etc...

^^not sure that made any sense, lol... or if it's even close to accurate, should have thrown in more, i think, in my opinion, etc... lol, Ah well, all posts can't be brilliant!

I agree it might be more common and easier See, my unique situation involves a guy who came from a culture that embraces masculinity, and all preconceived notions that go along with it...but, knowing him like I do, and the exploration we have done thus far tells me that inside, he is much more on the sexually submissive side, which is just lovely with me, but I want to help him come to terms with it for himself so we can fully embrace the power exchange we've started to grow. Wow, if thats not a run-on sentence, I don't know what is! Anyway, I guess I've been looking for insight into helping him on his journey, I know it was tough for me to arrive at the acceptance of my sexuality as it is, and he is quite a bit younger than me not to mention the cultural diametrical opposition. I want to lead without pushing, encourage without being insistant, let him take the journey with a hand to hold.

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