slotnick
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2011-02-13 5-27-01-
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for contrast, did I ever tell you about my ex gf M? She was polly before I met her. We met through missed connections, and we had great chemistry. Thing is, after thinking about it, I realized I could not attempt a polly relationship. I'm just too much of a on-one kind of person. So after talking to M, she and her primary set things aside so she could date me exclusively for a while. I was supposed to be utterly cool with this and time the three of us went to dinner, and M and her "ex" were talking comparing OUR first date to THEIR first date! I was totally floored! A few months later things didn't work out, and the NEXT DAY she went back to her primary while I was sittin' there all broken hearted. MAN I was pissed! But she played fair. She was honest with me. And I figured out that I was really more pissed about her putting me as a lower priority than her "ex". I suspect they were spending a lot of time together as "friends" while we were dating, so who knows if they ever really broke things off. I just chose to trust her and I'll live with that.
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