black hankies & home-baked bread I'm on the cusp of trans, and was queer before many of you were born. I'm looking for someone l single mature sexual women Elvaston IL ike me......who is genderqueer/trans, and also on the more masculine end of the rainbow. I've been around the block a few times and have the stories and scars to show for my adventures. I'm an introverted daydreamer, but I love small boisterous groups of close friends sharing snuggles, home-cooked food, and witty, filthy conversation. I'm intelligent, but not an intellectual. I'm handsome and eccentric. I want to learn how to tap-dance. I like to make things with my hands....baking, painting, cooking quilting, crafts, drawing, sewing etc. I stuff my hankies in my right hand pocket, and they are predominately red and black, with subtle touches of pink, grey and blue. Creativity, the senses, open-heartedness, and fucking are very important to me. I'm looking for someone to make more romantic, creative, and sexy misadventures with me. I don't want a fuck buddy or a u-haul relationship, but I desire friendship, lust, and (eventually) commitment. Keywords: perv, kinky, love, FTM, genderqueer, boi, BDSM, fisting, I'm a masochist and you're a sadist, mad kitchen skills, if you knot my tie for me I'll swoon, we could read Nightwood in bed together, I'm a bottom, my cat sleeps on the bed but leaves when I fuck, I already have a steady out of town play partner and don't need another, not vegan, do not own a television, and yes I realize this is long-winded. And in case the above was too obtuse.... "You're the top! You're the nose On the great Durante. I'm just in a way, As the French would say, "de trop". But if, baby, I'm the bottom, You're the top!"