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What to Do... I have to be honest. I had a friend go through this same thing. Be happy you have no yet and are standing your ground. My friend's wife took the decision in her own hands by ending the birth control before the honeymoon without notice. Kid one, x months later. They never got to develop a relationship as a twosome... to travel, explore the world and do things together as a couple, it was financial pressure from day His dreams and hopes for a successful marriage were pushed by the wayside for someone who was being rather selfish. Marriage is about shared decisions and both partners should be involved. It was not that he was opposed to ren at all, but felt timing was important, so they could be prepared. Con't next post. Then as soon as kid was almost x months, she was pushing another on him. "Well should be close in age, so they don't feel lonely. Plus you work too much and I'm al " At x months?! Wow I wonder why he works so much!! Duh He was already emotionally and physiy exhausted from supporting the family of x, the big new house and every bill related... working x-x hours a day with his job... few hours of sleep a night from the stress. I think it's really important when you get involved with someone and decide to marry that you are both on the same page and in agreement with the major parts of how the marriage will take it's course. In the end, come to find out this woman had a seriously dysfunctional upbringing with major abandonment issues, violence, and other abuses ... several suicides in her family as well. Wife has BPD. She immediately wanted a family of her own to replace the she could not count on growing up... or had committed suicide... at any cost...his wallet, his career, their ability to afford to live... To this day, he still can't understand how a woman he "loved and cherished" against everything his family warned him not to get involved with (they saw it a mile away), went through with the marriage. Now, he realizes... nothing in common, her verbal abuse (including to the ), her drinking problem, refusal to get help and he is no longer in love with her anymore. The only love he has is for the mother of the . (Con't next post)
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