If I'm such a terrible husband, why is my wife not agreeable to divorce? We're both very unhappy. Nothing I do is ever enough or makes my wife happy. I've given up. She tells her frinds and family that I'm abusive, selfish, controlling. Her family tells me that I'm a bad husband and should "treat" her better. I tell thim it's really none of their business. I speak with my wife and explain if we're both so unhappy, we have no girls looking swinger personals , i'll give you some money so you can start up somewhere else and maybe we can gain some girls looking swinger senior in both of our lives - she won't hear any of it. She keeps saying we can make it work. And then she gets right back on the phone and tells the next person she speaks with about how she can't live like this. I can't live like this. I've already spoken to a couple of attorneys who all said the same thing- it won't get better and do not have a girls looking swinger sex . They all urged to keep things civil and try to work out a divorce than can be completed through mediation. It would be nice to know how girls looking swinger site feels again. Any ideas on how I can get this message through to this woman?

Serve her with papers. And definitely stop sleeping with her.

there's no more sex .... and now i deal with the gay accusations.

big deal, more of a reason to get the hell out protect your assets and money now!

Serve her and stay away from her She's gonna be pissed and will try to get ya.

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REALITY IS SO PAINFUL WELCOME TO THE WONDERFUL WORLD OF COMING OUT OF THE CLOSET, YOU WILL FEEL REFRESSHED.YOU MUST NOT USE MONEY, SEX, KINDNESS, AND SUCH AS A TOOL IN WHICH YOU CAN CONTROL, OR girls looking swingers board SOMEONE, ESPECIALLY SOMEONE WHO TRULY LOVES, AS PERHAPS THIS PERSON DID.MAYBE YOU BROKE ALL THE TRUST SHE HAD IN YOU . MAYBE IT WAS A PLAN ALL ALONG TO MAKE HER BELIEVE" I WILL NEVER LEAVE" IN ORDER TO CAPTURE HER HEART AND MAKE HER TRUST IN YOU .MAYBE YOU WERENT BEING SINCERE. SINCERITY IS A VIRTUE ABOVE ALL ELSE. MAYBE THIS PERSON LONGS FOR THESHE FIRST MET. ONLY GOD KNOWS WHAT IS IN HER HEART, BUT YOU WILL NEVER KNOW, BECAUSE YOU LOST YOUR CHANCE.

You have to do what is best, the attys are right its all about her and always will. hertarget is right, serve the papers, don't offer her anything extra, in x years you may regret it. Change your girls looking swingers club and protect all assets so she can't sell everytihgn and steal th emoney when she finds out. Jusy because they are told they can't take money out, doesn't mean they won't. Don't tust her.

There's not even a desire to sleep with her I never co-mingled anything with her. I saw early on that she was extremely bad with money. Everything is protected. We have a joint account and she's dipped into it rather liberally. I want to take half the balance out. She's never paid anything - she always said that a husband's job is to pay for the wife. In a way it turned out better. She cannot offer a receipt or check for anything that she might claim to have paid.

Run below. PontiacDad's post.

yes, that's good info. must of that doesn't even need doing here- i never put anything within her reach. i know she would have wasted it all away.