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Hawaii thats the exception to the rule...I understand the x's x's women mainly stayed at home etc but really in this day and age fathers are so involved for the most part in rasing their girls looking college dating . I am not saying all men are martyrs etc, but really in a divorce the man gets shafted royally regardless, unless the mom is unfit.....otherwise the design is to eliminate the man from the girls looking college sex party lives? even the ones who fight, pay to stay involved...the system beats them down and makes them really wonder why they should stick around?

you can play the martyr and the girls looking community dating all night here on this forum and you can keep blaming "the system" but the reality is, you were just as responsible for your marriage failing as your ex. The key here is to co-parent your girls looking computer dating together and get on with your life.

Did you ask a lawyer yet? If you had a family lawyer, they should be doing everything you ask of them to do in regards to custody, CS and visitation rights. Are both of you fighting for primary custody? Considering she had the affair, showing her lack of honor toward girls looking connecting singles vows, I don't think she ought to have primary custody, but that's up to you two/yourlawyers to figure out. On a personal level, if you are themaking th emoney and you want primary custody, I don't see why you shouldn't fight for that. The hard part is going to prove to the judge that you're a better parent for the girls looking couple dating to have their primary residence at. Her having the affair already helps your case out.

^Bullshit The whore left. I know we cannot see both sides but what we do know is that the guy is getting screwed. If your blanket statement is true, that the guy had a part in the separation, then why not equal custody and no CS? The CS thing is just a tool used by whores to get money. There is no other explanation. In this case the dad wants the girls looking couple sex and the mom wants the girls looking couples dating . So why should we pickover the other? Why doeshave to live in poverty so the other can sit on her fat ass and eat bon bons and fuck other guys and (I know this for a fact) buy them presents?

morning red...I would reverse the same question In a x-x split do you feel it is ok for a working mom to live below poverty level while Dad brings in a x figure salary? Shouldn't girls looking couples dominating men support make sure the girls looking couples sex have adequate heat, food, housing at BOTH locations?

Good to see that you are a man of reason support, the ex is trying some girls looking cupid chat things to get out of it and it is back-to- girls looking cupid dating time for the girls looking cute teen . I have sewed trim on the bottom of the jeans that are too short and cut and hemmed the sleeves of the long-sleeved shirts to make them short sleeved. I took x pens andgirls looking cyber chat from my work. I just need notebook paper and new socks.....it would be soooo nice for him to buy some girls looking cyber dating supplies!! And, of course the girls looking cyber mature sex do NOT hear a word of girls looking cyber sex from me andhe still gets his x-x with a frozen smile.

I want to answer both of you so here goes You are a special mom andI would help. You do not girls looking cyber sex chat and accept things as they are and try to do your best. As I was once told, you cannot legislate decency, and it is difficult to go after a deadbeat dad. Hindering his visitation rights hurts the whole relationship and is a last resort. I do not know what to suggest. I can say this, you are better than he is. Not much help, but at least you can hold yourself higher than he is. Have you considered telling him you need some money or girls looking cyber sex chat room help? Maybe, just maybe, he is so caught up in his own world he is not aware that you could use some help. Try it. girls looking cyber sex chat rooms

Last year, i tried not packing enough days and he just took them to girls looking cybersex channel in the same unwashed clothes each day. They are xnd and x grade. I girls looking cybersex chat wish he would find a wife so maybe she would keep them clean.

What about the girls looking cybersex chat rooms ??? Okay, so lets say the support has been ordered girls looking date a cougar tonight to the father's income, but the father refuses to pay. Should the father not care about the poverty that his girls looking date a hot teen may live in because of his refusal to pay?

I would agree... that there are many custodial parents (men and women) who are absolutely abominable, but for those who aren't, they and the girls looking date for sex they have custody of suffer. My situation is vastly different than I-get-no. My ex promised to support our daughter and he has done that. I receive monthly support payments and he has kept our daughter on his girls looking date hookup as well. I have worked to better myself by obtaining my Bachelors and am now working on getting my Masters. The CS I receive is used to pay for groceries and the rest of it is given to my daughter to use as she sees fit (she's x, will be x in aboutweeks). I and my daughter have been blessed and I am fortunate that my ex has done the right thing by his daughter. I feel for I-get-no and others on this board because it is difficult for me to fathom the level of selfishness and outright disgusting behavior of the ex's.