donmoyer
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2012-06-17 16-08-02
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He slept w/his ex & came back apologizing. How can trust be rebuilt after it is broken??? How can I tell if he is trustworthy after breaking trust, and if we have a future together??? I met a man who I really, REALLY liked. A good man, of integrity. He was dating someone before me, casually. I was explicitly clear that I would not date him unless and until he was ddone with her. He swore it was over w/her, and we got together. I went away to visit family for Thanksgiving. While I was away, he slept with his ex. He picked me up at the airport and doesn't tell me until after making love w/me in my bed. He then says he has something he wants to tell me, but can't say what. I have to 'play x-questions' and 'pull teeth' to get the story out of him. He lies a few times before I finally get the truth out - that he'd slept with her, spent the night and left her bed ON THE SAME DAY that he picked me up at the airport and made love w/me in my bed. Now he says he is very sorry and it'll never, ever, ever happen again. Ever. He says he's never done anything like that before, and never will again. He says he's the most faithful man alive, and that this was totally out of character. He says I have nothing to worry about with him, that he'll be monogamous with me for the rest of our lives. :: eye roll :: Yah, right, like I've never heard that bs before. :: eye roll :: Yet.... yet .... what if..... I felt like I was falling in love with him, and he with me. And now this. How can trust be rebuilt after it is broke??? How can I tell if I can trust him again, and if we have a future together???
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