Hey everyone haven't been on much in a while...thought I'd say hi.

Hiya KiKi. Long time no see :-) welcum back.

Thanks...I've missed this place how are you Dax?

Doing good, thanks. Look down a short ways, I posted two links, go to the second one, it was my last kinky night about 2 weeks ago. a four part story. Enjoy! Whats new on your side of the screen, anything good and kinky?

I'll check it out in a minute :) Things have been pretty good here. SO's been really getting in touch with his kinky side and it's been great :) Just had a decently kinky night...I'm not feeling so great though :( He's really tired tonight and being as rough as he just was with me sort of drained him....so once he finished he just kind of...stopped altogether and said goodnight. Now I'm left feeling horribly down and detached :( I told him about it and he just kept saying sorry and that he felt bad... I told him we'd talk more tomorrow...he was tired and there was no getting back into the scene, I was already feeling down so it was past the point of just starting again so I could come down nice and slowly. Basiy it feels like I just sort of crashed. Like, I got up after a minute to get a drink and it felt like my mind was still in the scene, even though my body wasn't :( I don't like feeling like this. Is there a name for it? We hadn't gotten into a scene like this before tonight and I was really deep into it and then all of a sudden it was over and I was left feeling like this, is this common after being really into a scene? Sorry for all the questions, just figured I'd ask you in the off chance that you knew anything about how I'm feeling...

You are having Sub drop. The feelings of sub drop are a little bit different for each person, but yeah.. if you are feeling down, it would be sub drop.

Good to know, thank you

I would prescribe a pint of haagen-dazzzzzzzzzzz Well, because it is good. The let down after a scene is mostly(imho) the rush of endorphins leaving you. There is a sense of being unfulfilled, or just wanting there to be more/not wanting it to have ended. Honestly, snuggling up to my wife is what works best for me, I just drift off into her arms. Now that I am the dominant in our relationship, I do the same for her. It helps. The next day there is also some drop, so spending time together is important. And I was serious about the ice cream. Is there anything it *cant* cure?

There's one thing that it can't cure... But you seem to have cured it yourself quite well. Looking good my skinny friend! I'm so happy that things are going well for you. Hard to believe you're only half way there- you're going to be micro after all is said and done if that's the case. Congrats!

Continues slapping forehead.... Thank you Guy. Yeah, halfway is only halfway, now the real work begins, imho. I think I could stand to be micro. (Now, why are all the kinkfo ladies snickering???)

Nah! They're lusting- not snickering... (Keep telling yourself that anyway...) :) I've lost some weight a few years back (maybe x pounds) and I know that even the x pounds had such a big impact on how I moved and felt. Sex was so much easier! I felt like I could move into so many more positions, and my stamina increased immensely! I can only imagine how much better you already feel. Seriously- keep up the great work. I know the real work is just beginning- but think how much easier life already is. Congratulations!

Already thought of ice cream :) That and mindless games on facebook....feeling a little better now :) He and I will talk about it tomorrow, he usually cuddles afterward, but it's too hot for that right now... Also, ice cream can't cure ice cream headaches :P

umm icecream cant cure the need for a good hard fucking .. .posibly by more then one man at once . . .

Sure it can. You can use Ice cream to act males, silly Reb. My milkshake brings all the boys to the yard....

lol is it irony alls i have is vanilla . . . if i set it out in the yard . . will i catch a daxy ?

Without a doubt, dearest Reb ;-) I could watch your milkshake allllll day.

giggles . . humm that could be fun . . . .

Hey Dax I hope I didn't say anything wrong in my first reply to you. (Wondering if you missed it or if I pissed you off somehow...)

OMG.. I am sorry, I did totally miss it. *slaps forehead* ummm brain freeze?

That would explain it! :) You know the trick to cure brain freeze? Hold your tongue against the roof of your mouth- the heat from your tongue will warm your frozen sinuses and stop the headache- which is a result of your chilly sinus cavity! I doubt that you're eating much ice cream lately though- right? (Or not supposed to anyhow...) ;)

Actually.. I can eat ice-cream. What is sad is it counts as a dairy product now. But I choose to eat the sugar free chocolate pops. Only x calories per pop. (Approved by the bariatric place!) And I knew how to cure brain freeze, but I prefer to have Dot or Storm warm my mouth, hehehehehehheehehe....

Figures you would know the cure... You're like the "Norm" in this kinky bar we Kinkfo! (Ala Cheers) In fact, I've seen people shout out "Dax!" the minute you start posting- so really the similarities are striking!

LOL.. I have actually said that before.. It is a bit like cheers. (Now, if only everyone was HAPPY to see my name, *laughs*)

I think most are. You add a lot to this place. should pay you! :)